Actually , you messed up a with the differents isomers, no one provided similar answers..
The terms "mesomerism" or"resonance “ are both used for the model describing the displacement of electrons or protons (used in diffeaction) in a molecule (π ("pi")electrons of π bonds, lone pairs, and electric charges) which stabilize this molecule.
Mesomerism is an Imaginary model; 2 resonances structures drawn on paper are not isolables physically because they really don't exist! What exist is the resonance hybrid (the molecule which is the hybrid of those 2 , or more, structures).
By convention we use a simple double arrow head between mesomers in Lewis representation.
There is several exemples like :
1) conjugaison between 2 pairs of π electrons
( buta-1,3-diene)
2)conjugaison between pairs of π electrons and lone pairs
(phenol)
3) conjugaison between a pair of π electrons and an "empty case"
(nitrobenzene)
4) conjugaison between a lone pair and an "empty case"
Beware! Often people confound tautomerism and mesomerism, but the former is a constitutional isomer , a real chemical reaction occurs ( in many case result in relocation of a proton-and studied with diffraction) so for two tautomers, there are two isolable forms experimentally with ,of course different properties; also here you use two supperposed arrow with the upper pointing right and the other pointing left.
Still, keep in mind that orbitals(AO/MO) , bonds , charges,particles or waves are presented in a classical view that don't describe the quantum realm in the best way, but are useful simplifications taught at school
Ps: I couldn’t insert a picture to illustrate my exemples but I think there are plenty elsewhere