dear nikhil
carbenes are of two type -
singlet - sp2 hybridised
triplet - sp hybridised
triplet carbene is more stable than singlet carbene...
carbocation is a specie which has +ve charge on carbon atom , this carbon is SP2 hybridised ...
there is no lone pair at this carbon..
stablity order = benzyl>allyl>3o>2o>1o
carbanian is a specie which has -ve charge on carbon atom...carbanions are SP3hybridised ...
lone pair remains with this carbon...
stablity order = benzyl>allyl>1o>2o>3o