Sir , i'm a 12th passed out and i have not cleared IITJEE...for nearly a month i'm feeling mentally ill and i'm not able to share this sarrow with anybody....i feel ashamed even to come out my room... I'm not able to eat or interact with my parents properly...I just turned into a PYSCHO now.... i always think about my past and keep on crying for days.... Is IIT so important .... do all IITians a succefull in their life .... can a non-IITian excel more than a IITian ????????????

Dear Student,

Hey, don't be upset Yaar....... What happened, if you didn't clear IITJEE......... Better options will come in your way...... The only need is to catch them......... Start with a new confidence & don't feel ashamed........ Not every IITian is successful........Instead many diploma holders are more successful than them........ Be Happy.....

 Always Remember- HAPPINESS IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS, NOT SUCCESS IS                            THE KEY TO HAPPINESS.

                         Best Of Luck........

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Dear N Praveen Devaraajan,

Are all your state Politicians IITian ???

Are all IAS,IPS & IFS Officers IITians ??

No !!!!!!!!

Is it that you want to do sincere learning for 2 years for IIT-JEE & put in hard work for another 4 (or) 5 years in an IIT & then go for a job which pays you 12-13 lakhs/annum !

What is the use of all these when you have to obey the command of Politicains & IAS Officers !!

Being an IITian doesn't make you a powerful person !!

It is just a self realisation & a personal satisfaction !!

It is a way you find to survive in LIFE & not the only Way !!!!

Not the only Way .....

LIFE is not a circle as you consider it is ! LIFE isn't just IIT !!

Come out & see the world ....it is full of opportunities & enjoyment !

Every IITian is not succesful ....only those who survive the long run with indomitable spirit & determination are succesfull !!

Don't hark back at the failures !! Look forward & Look LIFE !!!!!

All te Best & Good Luck !!

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Sir, My father is an IAS officer , who hails from a poor village and he got his M.Tech deg from IIT Karagpur.......He told me that most of the engineering graduates who pass in IAS exam are from IITs as they have an advantage over others as they are from such background.....He told that normal engineering grads may possess good sub knowledge but they dont have smart, sharp or good exposure as in IITs....IITs make a normal person as sucessful man.....and thus successful IITians excel in IAS job.....

I'm now feeling as if my whole AIM and dREAM of becoming IAS is totally shattered.....and each an every time when i see my father i feel totally guilty of not cracking IIT....i fell totally unhappy every day and night....even sometimes i thought of running away from home.....sometimes my father's way of speech is indirectly  discouraging me......i'm only able to feel that i'm mentally ill.......

Remember..every successful person is not iitian and and every iitian is not successful...