Isostructural species are those species which have not only have similar hybridisation but also same lone pair and bond pair of electrons ie of the species compared.
This need not be true in the case of BeCl2 and XeF2.
NOW IN YOUR DOUBT OF WHETHER ClO3- and SO32- ARE ISOSTRUCTURAL.
YES THEY ARE AS THEY DO HAVE THE SAME HYBRIDISATION.
SEE,
ClO3-- ½ ( 7 + 1) = 4 (sp3)
SO32- - ½ (6+ 2) = 4 (sp3)
HOPE THIS HELPS.
umakant you have made a calculation error, please rectify.